You are NORMAL

The things you do, the thoughts you have, the feelings you experience ... you are normal. Everything about you is normal.

I have always seen myself through the eyes and actions of others. Are they doing the same things as I am? Are they saying the same things as I am? Are they thinking the same things as I am?

There are clear things through which you will realize that the people around you are the exact same way as you are, like: how they behave on certain events, what actions they take under different situations, how they react to all kind of things that life throws at them. Watching these things will confirm yourself that you are normal, because you know that in the giving situations you would have taken the exact same actions. And this will comfort you.

But there are some things that you can't see with your eyes, for example, what people think? So chances are that you will feel abnormal because you have some thoughts going through your head and you have no idea if others are just like you, thinking the same things or having the same feelings.

Well ... they do. They won't come out and tell you right to your face, but they do. They would love to have piles of money, stay home all day, watch TV without getting off the couch, eat all they can without getting fat ... and so on. They have a lot of moments when they have no idea what they are doing, they feel lost, sad, misunderstood, depressed, hate everything around they, wish to be loved, wish to be hugged, want to be the best, fear to be the worst, fear life events - pregnancy, becoming parents, marriage, losing someone, losing their freedom ... - hate being made to do what they don't like, not like a lot of things, not like many people, hate being surrounded by people, hate being alone .... there are thousands of things that people feel and think, but they don't talk about it.

You are Normal. You are just the same as everyone else. It is not our thoughts that make us different, is either you choose to follow them or not, if you voice them or not.

You have no idea just how NORMAL you are. And that's a good thing.



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