We all make suppositions, we're thinking of all the things that are going wrong and connect them with the possibility of a curse, but you can't really say for sure, without any doubt, that curses are real, and that they are affecting people.
Unlucky at the new job, or any job, not being able to gather some money, or having all sort of financial problems; bad luck in love, can't make any relationship stick, or screwing up what you have thinking that you deserve so much more, and maybe realize after that what you had was actually good and you blew it; getting in all sort of small accidents, always bumping into things, always loosing things, or have all sort of things break around you .... do all of these things sound familiar? Do you think that maybe they all happen because you might have been cursed?
Words have a powerful force, this is something that everybody knows. And they can make a lot of damage when they are being used to hurt. You know when someone is scolding you, and you think you would have preferred they would just hit you and leave you alone? Well, because apparently, we forget faster the hurt caused by a physical hit, rather than by a word.
Since we can't establish for sure either curses are real or just powerful words, said in anger, meeting a receiver that either believes in curses, believes that he did something bad and deserves the curse, or is in a lower point energetically, the best thing would be to focus on what to do if you think you might be cursed.
Think of the people you know, how you've treated them. Try seeing things from their perspective, to be able to understand if your actions or words hurt them enough to make them feel mistreated and maybe respond to your actions with thoughts of: "I wish they could understand how this feels", "I wish they could go through this and see how hard it is" .... . Even if you identify the possible person that might have been hurt by your actions or words, or you don't, try apologizing to them.
Do it as you feel. Do it in person, write a letter and send it, or not. Picture them and yourself apologizing to them. Just choose what is best for you. The only thing absolutely important is to mean it. Understand that what you did or said hurt them, either you might consider it or not, understand that and mean your apologies.
If, on the other hand, you think the curse might come from someone who hurt you, you can also apologize for whatever action or word came from your part and they feel might have hurt them. Before jumping two stories high, thinking that you did nothing to provoke this, just remember that this is not about what you did, but about what they think you did.
Now picture yourself cutting ties from them. It can actually be a string of thread that you cut with the scissors, or you imagine placing all the things they hurt you with, in a boat and release it on the sea, whatever works for you and appears in your imagination, will work perfectly.
Sometimes, something as simple as "I am sorry for hurting you", can go such a long way. You have no idea how many wounds can be healed with just these words, when you say them and really mean them. They are not only healing the person you are telling them to, but they are also healing you. Your soul. You will literally feel so light, like floating. And your heart will thank you for taking that burden from it.
Say "I'm sorry". It will make you stronger, not weaker.
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