We All Feel It -- We Just Don't Talk About It

 

 

I have been writing on this blog for a while now, and I truly hope you found some help in it while reading it. 

The reason I started this blog isn't because I have it all together, all figured it out, or because I've found the secret to forever happiness, but because I've been struggling, and I've been going through a lot, and I wished I had someone tell me how normal it all is, and how normal I am. That no one has it all figured it out, and what I am feeling is valid, and I am not alone in feeling that way. 

Life isn't always easy. It has amazing moments when you're so happy and you forget everything you've been through and all the hurt you've experienced. But it also has though moments, and some really bad moments sometimes, for some people. That is why I am not judging people I see on the street who do what they can to survive (and I'm not talking about bad things). 

I have moments when I'm feeling down. And sometimes I don't even have a reason for that. I have no idea why I'm feeling that way. And I used to think that something is wrong with me. Boy how I wished there was someone to tell me that I am normal, and we all get those feelings. You're not broken, and you're not wrongly wired or anything like that, you're just feeling down. Sometimes is because you're tired. Sometimes spending too much time in front of a computer, or a phone, or tablet, will get you feeling like this. Sometimes you're just tired of fighting, tired of hoping, tired of waiting. You are ok. And you are normal. 

Don't guide your "normal" by how the people around you are. They might be in their happy moments, when they forgot how hard it was before. Or they might just try to put a smile on, and try to forget they're feeling like that. Like you do it too when you're feeling that way. Everything that you are doing to help you move on and seem normal on the outside, is the same thing that they are doing, they're just not talking about it. 

I hope you realize how good you are, how normal everything is, and how it will be ok. It all passes. Everything passes. Just cope with today. Tomorrow will be better. Something wonderful will happen. And you will find your way. Smile wonderful soul. You're amazing 😊

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