Stop Falling In Love With Everybody

 

 

I'm talking to you, beautiful child that you were unwanted, and you're looking for love in everyone around you. In every person that is good to you, or treats you nice. In every soul that smile at you and shows you kindness. Stop falling in love with all those people, just because you lack the love that you thought you will get from your parents.

You parents are humans as well. They had problems, and troubles, and they didn't know how to cope with things. Maybe they were scared out of their mind of having you. Maybe in the moment they find out about you, they might have been going through something. Lacking money, a house, a job, a support from their families and friends. There could have been going through so many things. You know how it is. You've lived that too. And you had so many moments when you thought you can't make it through it, and hoped that nothing unpredictable will appear. 

Forgive them. Forgive their lack of love when they did not know how to react to your coming into the world. Forgive their lack of love when they were panicked and beaten down because they didn't know how to raise you, and take care of them at the same time. Forgive them, cause they did not have the mental strength to deal with what that moment was giving them. 

You might have had that scare. That moment when things might not have been that great and the idea of a child scared the hell out of you. You had that moment. You would like your child to forgive you for having it. 

Stop looking for love in all those people that are not able to give it to you. Let them be nice and kind to you because that's their nature, and not because they are there to heal you. 

Love yourself. Love yourself so much that you heal every wound from within yourself and your past. Love yourself so much that you are enough. And that you heal your future. And when someone is good to you, you're happy to receive it and give back that same beautiful goodness. 

You can talk to them and ask them honestly about how it was, and see in their eyes how much they regret that they didn't know how to better face that moment. You will see in their eyes how much they love you, and how they would give their own life for you. See that love and understand that they did the best they could. 

If you unfortunately don't have them in your life anymore, write them a letter, and tell them everything your would like to tell them. And remember while writing it that they were humans too, and they did the best they could with what they had in that moment, and with the strength they had at that moment. 

Forgiving them, and understanding them will heal you. Loving yourself will heal you. You'll discover that you are enough, and any other outside love that comes will only be there to add to the love you already have, from loving yourself. 

Love yourself. You deserve it. You are a wonderful human being. You are worth it ❤️

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