Monday, May 22, 2023

You're Searching For Love Because You've Been Hurt

 

When you have been long enough in an environment where you haven't received loved, you haven't felt loved, or you felt like you had to earn it, work for it, pay for it, that is when you start looking for love in everyone around you.

When someone pays attention to you, when they show interest in you, when they do something nice or when they compliment you, or say that they like you, your heart and mind reacts to that instantly. Because you are getting what you've been craving for and you haven't received in so long. 

Unfortunately, sometimes you can't even tell the difference between what you actually want, if that person is actually someone you would like to be with, if you like them, or if you see yourself with them, because you start feeling this pull and need to create that life and connection with them in your mind. You feel loved and that is all your soul wants. 

That is in no way to blame. But, you do have to do all you can, gather all your strength and ask God for help and guidance to discern whether that person really is for you, or your mind is creating that bond because you crave it. 

You can replace God with Universe, or whatever else you call God. I call God, God, you might call it something else. Use what is good for you.

You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. You deserve to choose. And no matter how nice someone is to you and how much you need that what they give you in that moment, they may not be what you actually need. They may night be for you in the long run. And that is OK. And it doesn't mean that you won't meet someone else, or that you'll lose your only chance to be loved. It doesn't. I know it's hard to believe that when you want so much for that to work, but you will meet the person who is for you! Or the situation, job, opportunity, that is for you.

If your body is giving you the vibe that you should stay away from them, like something is not quite right, then you should listen to it. Maybe they are not right for you in that particular moment. Maybe God is making you meet just to see a glimpse of what you're going to get when you are both ready to have a beautiful commitment together. Maybe it's showing you that you still can, and that you will receive even better than that. 

Keep your faith! You are loved! You deserve love! You will get another love in your life that will resonate with you in ways you never though of. It will feel so perfect, so at peace, so right, so perfect, so beautiful and wonderful and natural that you will know. Your body will know. Your mind, spirit and soul will know. This is the right thing!

So, keep your faith! You are loved! You deserve love! You will get the love you need!

 

 

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