You might find yourself doing something new, something that you are so happy and excited about it, and you just want to talk about it with everyone around you. But, what do you do when you see you can't really talk to anyone around you? They might be too busy, or to cringe to be happy for you, or even just listen to you, too involved or too not involved to be caring ... .
You see them change their entire face mimic the minute you bring it up. And all your happiness and enthusiasm is broken. So you don't only have no one to tell the happy things to, but you also don't have no one to talk you out of all the bad things you have popping in your head: fears, concerns, stupid thoughts.
Some people close inside, and decide to stop telling things, but they also stop listening when you might need to talk, some start a blog, or create a social media page or group, or enroll in one that already exist, to find those people who are going through the same thing as they do, and, to be honest, this is one of the best things you can do. You have 90% chances to find more encouragement and power to move on, from strangers who are not only experiencing the same thing and they want to talk about it, but they are happy for you, they want to hear your take on it, and they want to talk about their on well.
There are ways to enjoy the wonderful changes that you are going through, to feel the beauty you get from it, receive advises, and tell your story, and some times they can be even better than if it would come from your friends or family.
People need to talk to other people about what they are going through. They need support, a change flux of ideas, and they need to ask questions and receive answers.
Maybe the fact that the people in your life are too busy to listen or talk to you is not such a bad thing after all. They might not understand your passion, the changes you are going through, your happiness or disappointment, and they might take away your joy or motivation even if they actually want to help you. Ever thought about that?
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