You Don't Owe It To Anyone!

 

I can not stress this enough: you do not owe anyone anything! Not your ancestors, not your parents, not your family, not your future children ... to no one! Everything you do, you do for yourself! That's it! That's all! There is no one else but you and who you want to be. 

I am seeing every day posts like "you owe it to your ancestors", "you owe it to your children", you owe it to that person, and that person. You do not owe anyone anything, and I would really like this pressure of owing something to someone be taken away from people. Don't you go through enough? Isn't it as hard as it is to keep going and heal and make yourself better, trying to be happier and understand life better? Isn't that enough? Why would you add more pressure saying that you owe something to someone else?

If you are not happy with how your life is, where you are, how you move, what you do ... than change! Do that for you, because you want better and you are the only person in this world that can give that to yourself. If you are not disciplined, there's not someone from outside that can come and give you that. You decide that you had enough and that you want to change. You don't want to wake up every day in the same situation. Day, after day, after day. And so, you change. Because you want something different and you know that if you want different results, it takes different actions. If you've always done the same thing and you got the same results, it's obvious for you that you have to move differently to get different. 

That's it! That is all, sweet, wonderful you! 

You do not change for your ancestors. They want you to be happy, for you! Your children will be happy if they see you happy. If you come home every day and they see you smiling, they feel you at peace, and they learn that you can have a bad day, bad emotions, be sad, fall down, fail, but that you try to make it better, and that is what they learn, that is what they take with them in life, growing up, the attitude and the perspective over life that they see in you, their parents. But you don't owe them the change, you do it for yourself, because you want to be happy and to not let things break you when they happen, but to get to the point where you feel sadness, but you come out of it faster. And who wouldn't want to feel better faster? 

So, don't put any more pressure on yourself. Make changes for you, because you want different! And be happy. You deserve to be happy.

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